The main level of BDSM is per se the delving into the mental-emotional level, which is only possible through a kind of trance-like state. Concentration on the outside world is restricted or even switched off, while conscious perception slowly transitions into unconscious feeling. At the same time, during this relaxed state, concentration on the process is always present.
Over the years, however, I have discovered that this very process of being in a relaxed state of full Attention to external stimuli can also transition into deep relaxation through my targeted guidance.
This is the moment when the protective mechanisms of consciousness suddenly weaken and access to the deeper level becomes possible. This contains memories and feelings that have always been there and have always been added over the course of life.
In BDSM you sometimes touch this level slightly, sometimes more strongly, or consciously you don't see a goal in it. BDSM sessions in any form as a path for self-development with long-term effects or improvement in mental well-being.
It is up to each person what they expected from the events. Nevertheless, no one can deny that there is an unusual situation that is noticeable during this time and that individually carries with it its after-effects.
The observation and experience with the process of deep relaxation and its effects and after-effects prompted me to focus more on the topic of hypnosis. The knowledge that I have gained over the years from practice, through the process itself and the countless feedback, I have expanded my hypnosis training to include scientific and other practical components.
This confirmed my findings even more:
We don't tell ourselves these processes because these days it's "healthy" and even modern to deal with one's psyche, it's not mumbo jumbo, but they really happen with all their after-effects for our brain, which has now been scientifically proven. (Hypnosis has been recognized as an effective therapy and healing method since 2006 through countless clinical and neuroscientific studies).
Why hypnosis in conjunction with BDSM sessions?
Since BDSM, as already mentioned, moves on the emotional and often on the unconscious level while simultaneously consciously experiencing it, hypnosis can help you surrender to this process even more deeply.
The blockages that prevent this can be removed.
Here you can work specifically with the topic of “Resolving the blockages in deep experiences during the BDSM session”. At the same time, you can find out whether these blockages are connected to other issues from our subconscious.
Only when you get to the bottom of the original topic and find the knowledge about it and the solution do the desired opportunities to delve deeper into the BDSM sessions open up.
Why hypnosis separately from BDSM sessions?
The unrestricted, deep experience of BDSM sessions and the resulting after-effects, in addition to the special psychological well-being, can also create a desire to work specifically on various everyday issues. Self-development and thus a positive change in certain patterns of thinking, acting and feeling provides the incentive to continue perfecting one's self-work until success is achieved.
Hypnosis can serve as a separate inner helper to solve issues that we have long been aware of - especially now, when we have experienced the positive impulses in self-development after the BDSM sessions and are thus encouraged to focus on them in a targeted manner.
As a hypnosis coach, in both cases I give you the opportunity to familiarize yourself with specific problems through targeted guidance during hypnosis in order to find the best solution yourself (not through me).
The use of hypnosis can be used for many issues in everyday and professional life, e.g.:
- Mental and emotional blockages (BDSM, everyday life, leisure time)
- Pressure to perform
- Wayfinding
- Finding identity through to finding gender
- Fear of failure
- Weight loss (sports coaching)
- Topics that are simply “there” and concern us, limit us and have a negative impact on our psyche